It is not overemphasized to state that EVERY lady loves the good life and would not mind a rich man for a partner. Ladies are in relationships for several reasons, right or wrong. Some are in there for the money, some for the body and others for the loving. Notwithstanding, a few are in there for all the three. This is not to say that there are no other reasons ladies are in relationships.
Someone once said " If you want the good things of life, you either work for them or find a man who can provide them for you" . I think it's really not a bad idea to stick to both options. Now, some would stick to the latter because living a fab life by their own means is only an uncertainty especially when they want it sooner than later. Every lady craves a luxury life but how they go about it, is wat makes the difference.
The WHYs ladies date men for their money are not farfetched ; Poor parenting, Greed, Low self-esteem, Unemployment, Experience from previous relationships, Our very competitive society, to mention but a few. Taking a closer look at the above-mentioned reasons, it is clear that it is not entirely the fault of ladies who indulge in this BUT in the midst of al of these, some ladies still stand up tall to protect their values and principles. How about being one of those ladies?
It is no doubt that there are so many advantages in dating men for their money. You get virtually everything money can buy, you conveniently pay your bills and in most cases, live the life you always dreamed of but you naturally become mentally and financially lazy which I suppose is not healthy. When your man is broke, you are automatically broke. Even if he beats you to a pulp, you still want to hang in there because of all you stand to loose. You sell your happiness in return for his money. If he loves you genuinely and you are in it for the money then, it becomes a form of cheating.
In any case, we are all entitled to our own opinions and should bear in mind that nothing is wrong until we see it as wrong.
Someone once said " If you want the good things of life, you either work for them or find a man who can provide them for you" . I think it's really not a bad idea to stick to both options. Now, some would stick to the latter because living a fab life by their own means is only an uncertainty especially when they want it sooner than later. Every lady craves a luxury life but how they go about it, is wat makes the difference.
The WHYs ladies date men for their money are not farfetched ; Poor parenting, Greed, Low self-esteem, Unemployment, Experience from previous relationships, Our very competitive society, to mention but a few. Taking a closer look at the above-mentioned reasons, it is clear that it is not entirely the fault of ladies who indulge in this BUT in the midst of al of these, some ladies still stand up tall to protect their values and principles. How about being one of those ladies?
It is no doubt that there are so many advantages in dating men for their money. You get virtually everything money can buy, you conveniently pay your bills and in most cases, live the life you always dreamed of but you naturally become mentally and financially lazy which I suppose is not healthy. When your man is broke, you are automatically broke. Even if he beats you to a pulp, you still want to hang in there because of all you stand to loose. You sell your happiness in return for his money. If he loves you genuinely and you are in it for the money then, it becomes a form of cheating.
In any case, we are all entitled to our own opinions and should bear in mind that nothing is wrong until we see it as wrong.
by HoneyJar
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